
As scientists, we are trained to be experts. From our earliest undergraduate days to the intense scrutiny of our doctoral defenses, we build a career on knowing things and, crucially, on telling others what we know. We publish papers to tell the world our findings. We present at conferences to tell our peers about our progress. We mentor students by telling them how to conduct their research. But what if I told you that our greatest strength as scientists might not be in the telling, but in the asking? This is the central, powerful idea behind Edgar H. Schein’s concept of “Humble Inquiry,” and it has profoundly reshaped my work in collaborative leadership.

What if I told you that our greatest strength as scientists might not be in the telling, but in the asking?
Humble Inquiry is the gentle art of asking questions to which you genuinely do not know the answer. It’s not about asking leading questions to guide someone to a conclusion you’ve already reached. It’s about momentarily setting aside your status as the expert and adopting a posture of pure curiosity. Think about the last time a junior researcher in your lab was struggling with an experiment. Was your first impulse to tell them what they did wrong and how to fix it? Or did you ask, “Can you walk me through your process? What did you observe that was unexpected?” The first approach solves an immediate problem; the second builds a thinking partner. Which one do you think fosters a more innovative and resilient research environment in the long run?
By telling, we create a hierarchy that can shut down the flow of vital information.
This shift from telling to asking is transformative in the highly interdependent world of modern science. No single person holds all the knowledge. Your collaborator in another department, the lab technician, or the graduate student running the assays, all have a unique perspective and hold critical pieces of the puzzle. By telling, we create a hierarchy that can shut down the flow of vital information. People become hesitant to point out a potential flaw in our reasoning or to share a “crazy” idea that might just lead to a breakthrough. How many potential discoveries are lost not because of a lack of knowledge, but because no one felt safe enough to ask a “dumb” question or challenge the expert in the room?
(Humble Inquiry) is about building relationships of trust where the best ideas, not just the ideas of the person with the most senior title, can rise to the surface.
I encourage you to experiment with Humble Inquiry this week. In your next lab meeting, instead of just reporting progress, try asking, “What’s one thing that’s puzzling us right now?” When mentoring a student, instead of giving immediate advice, ask, “What have you already tried, and what are you thinking of doing next?” This isn’t about abdicating your expertise; it’s about enhancing it with the collective intelligence of your team. It’s about building relationships of trust where the best ideas, not just the ideas of the person with the most senior title, can rise to the surface.
What’s one conversation you can have this week where you consciously choose to ask instead of tell, and what do you hope to discover?







